Huh??

*Shock*

Nafisa

Nafisa Yaradua

Nafisa Yaradua is

Nafisa Yaradua is Married...

Nafisa Yaradua is Married....To

Nafisa Yaradua is Married....To an

Nafisa Yaradua is Married....To an older

Nafisa Yaradua is Married....To an older man!

*shock*

Did she have a say in this?
Did she have a say in this?
Did she have a say in this?
Did she have a say in this?
Did she have a say in this?

*shock*

Zahra wishes Nafisa well
Zahra wishes Nafisa well
Zahra wishes Nafisa well
Zahra wishes Nafisa well
Zahra wishes Nafisa well

*shock*

Zahra didn't get an invite
Zahra didn't get an invite
Zahra didn't get an invite
Zahra didn't get an invite
Zahra didn't get an invite

*shock*

Invite or not, Zahra wouldn't have gone anyway!

Invite or not, Zahra wouldn't have gone anyway!

Invite or not, Zahra wouldn't have gone anyway!

Invite or not, Zahra wouldn't have gone anyway!

Invite or not, Zahra wouldn't have gone anyway!

Me no Smart.

Grrrrrrrrrrrr! As I type this entry I am fuming! I can feel the steam coming out of my ears, thats exactly how pissed off I am. I have never thought I'd get this angry over issues like this and it all started from this book to my left. I pray I never come an inch close to this wretched piece of repugnant trash for I will shred it chapter by chapter, page by page, line by line, letter by letter, pixel by pixel, molecule by molecule....you get my point?

Now my fiance, he reads a lot and believes in all those "women talk too much because" "women don't understand because" yadda yadda. I always told him that it wud land him in trouble someday - Well it did.

It all started with a phone call. I didn't speak to him yesterday so I thought maybe we should talk today for at least an hour today; I could use a study break and he's bored.

So I was recapping the fun I had over the weekend. I went with a friend to a Gujurati Dandiya and Garba night (wud blog about it later) and we drove back home well after midnight and thats how it started.

"You girls shouldn't be driving at night, don't you know that women cannot see well compared to men at night and therefore shouldn't drive."

What the hell! How dare he say that to me! If he said it was because it may have been dangerous, or better still, he didnt want me to be out so late it would have made sense.

I took it as a joke at first, but when I found out it was from that book and all the other trash he believed from it I completely lost it. Apparently, the female brain is genetically programmed for household chores and therefore are less intelectually developed than the male *rolls eyes*.

I'm in the middle of a stressful week, have so many things due and I made out time to speak to you but you have the effrontery to open your mouth to tell me I'm less intelligent because I'm female, you must be joking. This is just a way to make women feel weaker than men isn't it? Well I'm having none of it! Not from you! Even the title of the book was offensive to me.

Now I'm not saying women are better than men, neither am saying men are bad. I just dont think its politically and morally incorrect to generalise that all the members of a certain sex are less capable than the other.

Just because a probably frustrated couple decided to pour out each others weaknesses in a book backed by weak fact and concocted generalisations to sell to the world doesn't mean we should blindly believe their illogical "evolutionary" facts.

I know I am judging the book by it's cover but sorry to say; it's hard to avoid considering the name of the book! It's just another way for people to justify their actions and wrongdoings.

Heck I would not tolerate any dude to tell me he did me wrong because its his nature as a man to do so. No way man!

Ironically, it is my mother who is excellent at reading maps and always calls out the directions for my father to follow cos he usually gets confused with navigation.


He sure got a piece of my mind today. It felt good to vent all that stress out. He asked for it! You dont make narrow minded comments like that to your feminist girlfriend and expect to go away scot free. Its funny cos things havent been smooth sailing between the both of us. He just added another crack man!

If he's going to believe junk like that Lord knows what else you'll believe when we are spending "the rest of our lives" together? How will he react when all those "them- say-them-say" people bring rumours about me?

Nonsense, I expect respect! It's a two way thing; I respect you, you respect me everybody wins!

anyways it led to another big fight and guess what? He wants me to adjust my attitude to suit his personality....Hahaha! thats all I said. You'd think that book of his would have thought him diplomatic skills....*hisssssssssssssss*

So I pose the questions;

Has anyone read the book?

Where do you stand on this?

Is it right to point fingers at each other and generalise like this?

Should we use these poorly explained "facts" to justify our actions?
hmm that would be interesting. Hi, I'm Zahra. I'm dumb. I cannot solve simple maths equations because my small female skull cannot analyse such difficult data. I got excellent grades in maths through household chores

Are women really less intelligent?

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I'd rather spend my days with you...and if that day is not enough, maybe we should stay in touch... I'm not making plans for tomorrow....

Remember the song from the TV show so little time? hehe....oh the memories!

Anyways, Barka da Sallah to everyone! hope u all had a good time, I know I did :) Food in abundance. Wish I went home but oh well. Hope u guys didnt overload! I really miss ramadan :( I cant remember the last time I actually ate Lunch. Still feels like I'm fasting.

Doesn't it suck when you really want to do something so bad but yopu don't have the time to do it? *sigh* October hasn't been a very sweet month for me. Uni is not treating me well that's for sure. I have my huge final year project due next week so wish me luck. The bright side is that Summer (Yes, summer! I live on Mars!) is around the corner.... I'll be a free person mid-November! Yippeee!

HaPpY independence day! Hope everyone enjoyed theirs. I belong to a Nigerian association, we organised a huge family gathering on Oct 6th and I appeared on T.V!!! I enjoyed every bit of it but as usual, our country people only come their to criticise and comment. It's not like they helped out....*hiss* anyways, the rest of us were positive and we had a great night :)

I promise you'll hear more from me when I'm through with that huge project of mine... It's due next friday. Until then, all the best!